Monday, October 17, 2011

Rights of Others in Islam

Any act by which someone is hurt, or his person, possession or dignity are subjected to any loss is absolutely forbidden; it is forbidden in the same way as is pork, alcohol or usury.

Indeed, while some leniency may be shown when unlawful food is consumed in extreme cases of emergency, no such mitigation on account of extraordinary situations is possible in case of violating such prohibitions as not to usurp others’ property, nor backbite nor defame nor slander. The punishment for these is only hellfire. Even worse would be the fact that Allah would not talk to such offenders, nor cleanse them of their sins. (Al-Imran 3: 77)


There is no pardon from Allah in cases where personal rights have been violated: forgiveness may only come from the person aggrieved – either directly or when Allah makes it possible for that person to grant such pardon. Just save yourself from such acts. And if you were to violate others’ rights, obtain their forgiveness here in this world or else you’ll be left absolutely destitute and bankrupt on the Day of Judgment.

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All praise is due to Allah, who honoured us in His Book with these words;

“Verily Allah commands you to fulfill trust (rights) to its recipients and when you judge between people then judge with justice'Al- Qur'aan

and salutations (Salaat) and peace (Salaam) be upon His Messenger, our leader Muhammad (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam), who made us aware with his words;

“Whoever has oppressed his brother should repay ft before the Day of Qiyaamah) even if it be a Dinaar or Dirham (rand or cent)[Hadith]”

and upon his family and companions who fulfilled what they were commanded by Allah and upon the Ulama of his Ummah.


It is apparent that we as believers have been ordained to fulfill certain rights. Some of these rights of Islam pertain to Allah Ta'ala and some to His servants. As concerns the rights of the servants of Allah, some are Deeni (religious) while others are Dunyawi (worldly) obligations. The worldly rights include that of close relatives, neighbours, colleagues, friends, Elders, the young and of all Muslims in general. It has become predominant that due to lack of knowledge we blatantly disregard these rights, or that we are neglectful in fulfilling these rights. For this reason it was envisaged that a concise booklet should be written in which these rights are discussed. It is hoped that this will lnsha-Allah be beneficial to all of us. This book has been divided into several sub-divisions, each of which deals with a particular topic under discussion.


Rights Of Allah


The first right upon a servant is that due to Allah Ta'ala, Who has blessed us with innumerable bounties and favours and Who takes us out of misguidedness towards Guidance and has promised us enormous reward for our actions.


The rights of Allah Ta'ala, called `Huququllah' are:


Our beliefs regarding the Being and Qualifies of Allah Ta'ala should be in accordance with the Qur'aan and Hadith.


That we should make our beliefs, actions, business transactions, social life and character in accordance to the Pleasure of Allah Ta'ala, and abstain from all those things which lead to His displeasure.


That you give preference to the Pleasure and Love of Allah Ta'ala over all other loves and pleasures of life. 


Whatever you have, be it love or enmity for anyone, having good relations or breaking-off of ties, should only be for the pleasure of Allah Ta'ala.


Rights of Ambiyaa and Malaaikah

We have been informed of the `Being' and Qualities of Allah Ta'ala, and what leads to His pleasure and displeasure through means of the Ambiyaa (Prophets), and they through wahi (revelation) conveyed by the Angels. Thus there are certain rights due to them for this favour upon us. 


For all that they showed us is, for our Deeni and worldly benefit and to safeguard us from harmful things in both the worlds. 


Many angels are appointed to tasks that are of benefit to us (such as bringing rain) and they fulfill these tasks by the Command of Allah Ta'ala. Thus the rights due to the Ambiyaa (Alaihimus Salaam) and the Malaa'ikah are in part, of the rights of Allah Ta'ala.

In particular the favours of Rasulullah Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam upon us are the most, thus the rights due to him are also the most.

The rights due to him are:

  • to believe in his Nubuwwat (Prophethood)
  • to follow his every command and Sunnat (way)
  • to honour and love him in your heart
  • to continuously convey Salaat and Salaams (Durood) upon him

The rights of the angels are:

  • to believe in their existence.
  • to believe them to be free of sin.
  • When their names are mentioned to say `Alayhis Salaam'.
  • Not to enter the Musjid after having eaten or taking something which has an offensive odour, which will cause difficulty to the angels.

To save yourself from all things which displease the angels such as: To keep pictures, to be lax in purifying yourself from janaabat (impurities) and to unnecessarily become involved in Makrooh (disliked) things. 


Rights of Sahaaba and Ahle Bayt
 

The Sahaba Kiraam (Radiallahu Anhum) and the Ahl-eBayt (family of Rasulullah Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) have Deeni and worldly attachment directly with Rasulullah Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam. Therefore fulfilling their rights is also part of fulfilling Rasulullah Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam's rights.

The rights due to them are:

  • To follow and obey them.
  • To have love for them.
  • To believe in their being people worthy of honour and nobility.
  • To have love for their friends and enmity for their enemies.

Rights of Ulama and Mashaaikh

The Ulama of the external and internal aspects of Deen are the inheritors and successors of Sayyiduna Rasulullah Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam; therefore their rights are also part of Rasulullah Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam's rights. 


Their rights are:

  • Continue making Dua for the Fuqahaah, Mujtahideen (Islamic Jurists), Ulama, Muhadditheen, Asaatiza (your Deeni teachers), Mashaa'ikh (Sheikhs) and authors of Islamic works.
  • Follow and obey them in all matters pertaining to and in accordance with Shari' at.
  • Those of them who are living, have love for them and honour them, do not have enmity for them or oppose them.
  • If possible, also assist them according to your capacity to fulfill their (financial) necessities.

Rights of Parents


All the above-mentioned categories of people are the means of our receiving Deeni bounties and favours, therefore their rights were made compulsory on us. On the other hand there are others who are the means of worldly favours and benefit. Their rights have also been commanded by Shari' at.

Foremost amongst them are our parents. They are the means of our being born and living and also our upbringing when we were young (and unable to do anything for ourselves.) Therefore their rights are incumbent upon us.

The rights of parents are:

  • Do not give them any trouble or harm, even though there may be some excess on their part.
  • Honour and respect them, verbally and by deed (action).
  • Completely obey and serve them in all those things permitted by Shari' at.
  • If they are in need, then serve them with your wealth and money, even if they be kaafirs (unbelievers).

Rights of Grandparents


The rights of your grandparents according to Shariat are exactly the same as those of your parents, (whether they be living or have passed away). Therefore as you fulfill your parent's rights so too must you regard your grandparent's rights.

Similar is the case that your mother's brothers and sisters are like your mother; and your father's brothers and sisters are like your father in regard to their rights.

Therefore fulfill the rights of these close family ties, as that of your parents, as they are Islamically also your Mahram.


Rights of children


As parents have rights on their children, so to do children have rights on their parents. Your children's rights are:

  • Firstly, a man should marry a pious wife of good character so that the offspring may be pious and good-natured. [so too is the case of a woman.]
  • You should bring up and cherish your children with love in their infancy and childhood. Great reward and virtues have been mentioned for having love for your children. Particularly in regard with daughters, do not become disheartened by them, for very great reward has been mentioned for bringing-up and looking after your daughters.
  • The occasion arises where children have to be fed by a wet-nurse, then choose a woman who is pious and good-natured, for the milk drank by children effects their character and temperament.
  • You should give them Deeni Ilm (knowledge) and teach them good character, manners and etiquette.
  • When they reach marriageable age then have their nikah performed. If a daughter's husband passes away then take care of her until she is married again. You should bear her expenses and look after her.

Rights of a wet nurse


A wet-nurse by virtue of breast-feeding you, is similar to your mother. She too has been accorded rights. Her rights are:

  • Treat her with respect and honour.
  • If she is needy and you are wealthy then serve her with your wealth.
  • If possible then acquire a servant or maid to serve her.
  • Since her husband is her partner, therefore be kind and generous towards him also.

Rights of a stepmother


Due to the fact that your stepmother is married to and has a bond with your father, and we have been commanded to have good relations with our parent's friends, therefore the stepmother also has rights: These rights are those mentioned(previously-Rights of a wet nurse)[ Similarly is the case of a stepfather.]

It has been mentioned in the Hadith that the big brother is similar to the father. Thus, it therefore necessitates that the younger brother is like your children in respect of their rights over you. Therefore, as regards your elder and younger brothers, they have the same rights as that of your parents and of your children respectively. Regard the rights of sisters upon the same principle.


Rights of your family and relatives


In the same manner your close relatives and family also have rights over you. Which concisely mentioned are:

  • If anyone from your Mahram (those people you cannot marry) are needy and have no means of income, then to provide for them as will suffice them becomes Waajib (obligatory), as is the case of your children. Generally in others circumstances it is not waajib to provide for your mahrams, but it is necessary to serve and be kind towards them.
  • Go and visit them regularly.
  • Do not break-off ties with them. Even if they cause you some trouble or harm then make Sabr (be patient) on that.

Rights of your Ustaadh and Sheikh


As your Ustaadh and Sheikh are with regard to your internal (character) up bringing, like your father, therefore treat them, their family and relatives as you would treat your father, your immediate family and relatives. From this we understand the need for honouring and respecting our Elders, Sheikhs and teachers. From here a very important point emerges. The students or mureeds are in the category of children of the Sheikh or Ustaadh respectively, their rights with each other are similar to those of brothers and sisters. 


Rights of a student or mureed


Since mureeds and students are like the Sheikh's or Ustaadh's own children, therefore as regards their spiritual up bringing, compassion and kindness, their rights are like those of his own children.

Rights of Spouses


To fulfill the rights of the husband and wife respectively, are very important for a happy and fulfilling marriage.

The rights upon a husband are:

  • To spend and take care of the expenses of your wife according to your capability. Not to be miserly in this regard.
  • To continuously teach her the masaa'il (laws) of Deen and to encourage her towards doing good deeds.
  • To permit her to visit her parents, brothers and sisters, and family.
  • If occasionally the need arises to reprimand her, then do not be excessive.

The rights upon a wife are:

  • To obey, respect and fulfill the needs and desires of her husband. But with soft words excuse yourself from any unlawful thing (which is against Shariat).
  • Do not ask for things beyond his means.
  • Do not spend his wealth without his permission.
  • Do not be abusive or unkind to his close family, which causes hurt, worry or resentment in his heart. Especially with his parents, treat them with respect and honor.

Rights of an Employer and his Employee


The term "master" here includes 'a king, ruler, his deputy, an employer, etc.' and an "underling" includes 'a subject, servant, employee, etc.'

The rights upon a master are:

  • Do not place too burdensome tasks upon an underling.
  • If there is a difference or argument between two workers then be just. Do not favour one.
  • Be mindful of their safety and ease. Make suitable arrangements so that they may be able to bring you their complaints without difficulty.
  • If at times they are unable to carry out your orders, then accept their excuse and forgive them.

The rights on an underling are:

  • Obey and seek good for your ruler or employer. But do not obey him in things against Shariat.
  • If the master or employer does or says something, which is against your temperament, then make Sabr and be patient. Do not complain or curse him. Make dua that Allah Ta'ala makes his heart soft. In one Hadith it is mentioned that you yourself should obey Allah Ta'ala so that Allah Ta'ala will make the rulers heart soft and kindhearted towards you.
  • If your employer or ruler does something, which gives you ease, then be grateful to him.
  • Merely due to your own desires, do not be rebellious.

These rights are valid for as long as a person is under the rule or employment of a person. Otherwise he has his own free will. 


Rights of the in-laws


In the Qur'aan Majeed Allah Ta'ala has also mentioned the `in-laws' to be amongst your relatives and this type of family relations to be a Ne'mat and bounty from Allah Ta'ala.

From this it becomes apparent that as concerns your father and mother-in-law, brothers and sisters-in-law as well as children from your spouse's previous marriage, have a certain degree of rights.

Therefore as regards them you should take particular care of being kind, good-natured and helpful to them. Also visit them sometimes. 


Rights of All Muslims in general
 

Apart from your relatives and friends, all Muslims in general have certain rights over you. Allaamah Subhaani in `Targheeb wa Targheeb' has mentioned them on the authority of Hazrat Ali (Radiallahu Anhu) to be:

1.      Forgive the fault of your Muslim brother

2.      Have compassion during their grief and crying.

3.      Hide their faults.

4.      Accept their excuse.

5.      Remove any trouble or difficulty, which has befallen them.

6.      Always desire good for them.

7.      Guard the love they have for you.

8.      Be mindful of their rights.

9.      If they are sick then visit them.

10. If they pass away then attend their funeral (Janaaza).

11. Accept their invitation (Da'waat).

12. Accept the gifts they send to you.

13. Return the good they do to you.

14. Be grateful to them for their favours to you.

15. When the occasion arises, assist them.

16. Protect and look after their household and families.

17. Assist them in their need.

18. Listen to their requests.

19. Accept their intercession on behalf of others.

20. Do not make them despair from achieving their aims.

21. When they sneeze and say `Alhamdulillah', then reply by saying 'Yarhamukallah'.

22. Return their lost goods to them.

23. Reply to their Salaam.

24. Speak to them with kindness and with soft and pleasant words.

25. Be kind and bountiful towards them.

26. If they take a pledge while relying on you, then fulfill their pledge.

27. If someone is oppressing them then assist them; and if they are oppressing someone else then stop them.

28. Have love for them and do not have enmity with them.

29. Do not degrade them.

30. Whatever you desire for yourself, desire the same for them.

In other Hadiths this too has been added:

31. At the time when meeting them then make Salaam; and if you shake their hands then that will be better.

32. If coincidently you become angry with someone, then do not stop speaking to him for more than three days.

33. Do not be suspicious or doubt him.

34. Do not be jealous or have enmity and hatred towards him.

35. As far as possible command good and forbid him from evil.

36. Be kind to the young and respect the Elderly.

37. If two Muslims fight then create a truce between them.

38. Do not backbite about him.

39. Do not cause him any harm, neither in his honour nor in his wealth.

40. If he cannot mount his conveyance then give him support and assist him.

41. Do not make him stand up from his place for you to sit down on it.

42. Two people should not speak amongst themselves while leaving a third person out.

An important point to note is that previously all the rights mentioned were for special groups of people. Their rights are over and above and also include the above-mentioned rights.


Rights of Neighbours Companions and Colleagues
 

Certain groups of people, who have specific relations with you (viz. neighbours, colleagues and companions), enjoy additional rights to those of the general Muslim populace.

Their rights include:

  • Be kind and considerate towards them.
  • Safeguard the honour of his household and family.
  • At times send some gift for him. Especially when they are destitute or poverty-stricken then send some food for them too. Do not cause him trouble, do not become angry or create a quarrel with him on minor things. For, to remove any difficulty from him, the Shariat has granted him the `right of neighbour-ship. [This means that according to Shariat if you want to sell your home, then the neighbour has the first option and right to buy it.]

The Ulama have said that just as you have colleagues and neighbours when at home, so too when on travel. That is, you have travel-companions, and they are those people who travel with you when you leave home or those who coincidently join you while travelling.

This too has been mentioned in the Hadith. Their rights too are like those of your neighbours, companions and colleagues at home.

The result of all these rights is this: - that give preference to their ease over your ease. Some people inconvenience many others when travelling on some form of public transport, like a bus, train, plane, etc. This is a very bad habit. 


Rights of the Orphans and the Weak
 

In the same manner those people who are disadvantaged, like orphans, widows, the weak, the destitute, the needy, the sick, the traveller and the beggar, also have some additional rights. They are:

  • Help and serve them.
  • Assist and do their work with your own hands.
  • Be compassionate and cheer them up.
  • Do not reject or turn away their needs and requests.

Rights of guests


The guest also has certain rights and they are:

  • To welcome them when they arrive, and to at least accompany them till the door when they are departing.
  • To organise and prepare their necessities, food, sleeping place, etc. due to which they experience ease.
  • To treat them with honour and respect, in fact serve them with your own hands.
  • At least on one day prepare a special meal for them in which you take great care, but only to that extent where you do not feel burdened, nor the guest embarrassed and at the minimum you should be their host for three days.

So much is their necessary right and your duty, thereafter for as long as they stay it is a favour of their host upon them. But it is more appropriate for the guest that he should not inconvenience the host, neither by staying for too long, nor by unnecessarily requesting things, nor by interfering in the choice of food, place, manner of serving, etc of the host. 


Rights of friends


The Quran Kareem has mentioned that the 'specialties', which exist in, close family ties, as being the same found in friendship.

These are the etiquettes and rights of friends:

  • The person, with whom you desire to be friends, should be observed carefully regarding his beliefs, actions, dealings and character. If they are sound and of a pious nature then forge friendship with such a person, otherwise stay far from him. Great stress has been laid on safeguarding oneself from bad company. From experience too, we see its harmful effects. When you do find a pious, good-natured and loyal friend, of the same sex; then there is no harm in forging strong bonds of friendship. In fact in this world one of the greatest means of ease and comfort is friendship.
  • Never betray or be miserly towards him, whether in your person or in your wealth.
  • If he does something, which is against your temperament, then overlook it. If by any chance there is a misunderstanding or he does something wrong or embarrassing then immediately clear the matter up.
  • Do not be lax in seeking good for him, and never refrain from giving him your good advice and consultation (mashwara). Listen to his consultation with sincerity and if it is worthy of following then act upon it.

An important and noteworthy aspect is that the custom of 'adopting' children, wherein they are regarded in all aspects like your own children, which has become prevalent has no real basis in Shariat. The Islamic legal status of adopted children is no more than that of 'sincere friendship', and it will fall in that category. As for the rest legally speaking, like in inheritance, etc., they do not receive any share. For inheritance is a Shariat command in which man has no say, it is not voluntary, that for whoever you wish you give inheritance and for whoever you wish you disinherit him. 


THE LAW PERTAINING TO DISINHERITANCE From this it becomes quite clear that this custom which has become prevalent of disinheriting; that a person says that so and so (of his children or Islamically legal heir) should not receive inheritance and then dies, is completely unlawful and null and void.

As has been explained above inheritance is a command of Shariat and thus obligatory, and not voluntary. [Do not involve yourself in punishment and torment for wealth that is no longer of any benefit to you after your death.]


Rights of our fellow Humans


As a great deal of rights have been ordained in Islam, due to a person being close to you or due to having the same religion, so too some rights are ordained due to us being from the same species. That is, due to being human it is necessary to be considerate of them, even though they may not be Muslims.

Their rights are:

  • Without reason do not give trouble to or harm anyone, neither in his person nor in his wealth.
  • Without any Shariat reason do not speak evil or insult anyone.
  • If you see someone afflicted with difficulty, poverty or sickness, then help him, give him food and drink, and give him medical treatment.
  • Even in those cases where Shariat has given permission to punish someone, do not be cruel or excessive, nor should you threaten him unjustly.

Rights of Animals


Similarly due to being of the same class, some rights are also required. That is as far as the rights of animals are concerned, we should also consider them.

They are:

  • Those animals from which we do not derive any direct benefit, do not cage them up for no reason. Especially do not take the young away from their nests, dens, burrows or homes and then make their parents concerned and grieved. To do this is being very merciless.
  • Those animals, which can be of benefit, as well as those animals which do not directly benefit us, do not merely kill them for sport. Many game hunters (deep-sea fishermen, etc) are involved in this.
  • Those animals, which we use for our benefit, do take care in providing for their food, care, etc. Do not make them do tasks which are beyond their capabilities and do not beat them over the limit.
  • Those animals, which are to be slaughtered or that animal which has to be killed due to being harmful. Kill it with a sharp instrument, knife, etc. Do not make it suffer unnecessarily. Do not starve an animal or cause it to die.

Miscellaneous Rights


Thus far all the rights mentioned are those that are obligatory on a person from the very beginning. There are other rights which man, of his own choice, makes compulsory upon himself.

There are some, which pertain to `Huququllah' (the rights of Allah Ta'ala).


These are of three types: - 


Type one: That right whose means is obedience (to Allah Ta'ala). It is to make a `Nazar'. [Nazar means that you promise that if some work of yours gets done, you will perform a certain Ibaadat or give a certain sum in charity, etc]. 


If it (i.e. what you promise to do) is from the 'Ibaadat Maksooda' (actual Ibaadat like Salaat, Sadaqah, etc) then to fulfill it is Farz and compulsory. If it is from `Ibaadat Ghair-Maksooda' (like you promise to feed a person) then to fulfill it is Mustahab. If it is on something, which is Mubah (permissible), then the nazar or promise will be regarded as nonsense. If it is on something that is Maasiyat (sinful), then it will be haraam; and to make a nazar on anything other than Allah Ta'ala, is shirk (ascribing partners to Allah Ta'ala). 


Type two: Those things whose means are something permissible. Like the Kaffaarah (compensation) of an oath (yameen), or the Qazaa of Ramadhan for a traveller or sick person. These rights are compulsory (Waajib) to fulfill. 


Type three: The reason for it is due to your having committed some disobedience or sin. Like the Kaffaarah (compensation) for a fast which you broke in Ramadhan without any valid Shari' reason. The commands of these rights are also compulsory (Waajib) to fulfill. 


The second type of voluntary rights which a person places upon himself are those which pertain to 'Huqooqul-Ibaad' (the rights of men).
 

These too, as in the above case are of three types: -


Type one: those whose reason are obedience (to Allah Ta'ala). Like to fulfill a promise made with someone. It is necessary to fulfill this right. To be lax in this is mentioned to be a sign of hypocrisy.


Type two: These are those whose reason are due to it being permissible. Like giving a loan or similar transactions, accepting goods bought, to pay the Mahr, to pay a worker his salary, to return a trust placed in your care, etc.

All these things are Waajib and compulsory.


Type three: Those things whose reason is a sin or disobedience. Like killing someone, stealing something, to breach a trust, to dishonour or degrade someone, to be insulting, to swear at or to backbite someone, etc. To stop all these things and to seek forgiveness from the people concerned is Farz and obligatory. Otherwise in the Akhirat you will have to recompense them by giving them your good deeds, or you will have to undergo punishment for these transgressions.


Conclusion


Whatever rights are still left outstanding on you, if it is from amongst the "Huququllah", and if it is from `Ibaadat' then fulfill it. Like for example if you have certain Namaazes, or Rozas (fast) or Zakaat that has not been paid yet and it is outstanding, then work out how much is outstanding and fulfill it. If due to not having sufficient time or wealth at present you are unable to fulfill it (make Qazaa) immediately, then make a firm intention in your heart that when the opportunity avails and I have sufficient wealth, then I will not delay in fulfilling these duties and making my Qazaa.

If these rights outstanding are "Huququllah", but are due to 'disobedience and sin', i.e. you have not obeyed a command of Allah Ta'ala or been disobedient, then make sincere and true Taubah (repentance) - Insha-Allah everything will be forgiven. 


On the other hand, if the rights outstanding belong to the category of "Huqooqul-Ibaad" (the rights of servants), and they are capable of being `recompensed or repaid', such as debts, or if you have not returned a trust, etc.; then repay it or return it immediately or have it forgiven by that person.

If the rights are "Huqooqul-Ibaad" but they are of such a nature that they can only be `forgiven', such as back-biting, etc. then ask the person or people concerned for Ma'aafi (forgiveness) and have it forgiven by them. 


If due to some valid Shari' reason, you cannot ask the person directly to forgive you or cannot repay the right due to him, because of, for example him having passed away, etc. then you should always and regularly make dua for his forgiveness and that Allah Ta'ala have mercy on him and grant him a much better and greater recompense. It is not surprising or beyond Him, that Allah Ta'ala will satisfy him on the Day of Qiyamat and have it forgiven. (Note: An important point is that if the person concerned passed away and you owe something to him, such as a debt, it has to be paid to his estate and inheritors.) 


Though, if you have the ability to repay it or seek forgiveness and make Istigfar for that person, then do so immediately. Do not delay or be lax in this. 


Alternately if there are certain rights of yours, which are outstanding and the responsibility of other people, then those rights for which you have hope of it being repaid or returned, like your debtors, then ask for it politely from those people. 


If you have no hope of recovering it from them, or if they are from the category of being `forgiven' only, like their having back-bitten about you, then even though you will be able to claim good deeds from them, but for you to forgive them completely will entail a greater reward for you and is more virtuous and significant. 


Therefore it better if you forgive all of them completely, and especially when someone comes and asks you for ma'aafi and forgiveness. 


May Allah Ta'ala give us all the Taufeeq of fulfilling all the rights due on us, whether they be Huququllah or Huqooqul-Ibaad. Ameen.

Sunnipath

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The great importance of Fulfilling rights of people

Allah, the Almighty, calls attention to an aspect of honouring people’s rights when He says,
 “And eat up not one another’s property unjustly.” (Al-Baqarah 2: 188) 

The Prophet also corroborated this point when he said,
 “A Muslim’s property should not be taken except by his willing consent.”

He also said, “Verily, your blood, properties and honour are sacred to each another, just as the sacredness of this day of yours in this month of yours and in this city of yours.” This is confirmed by another statement of his, “The hand is responsible for whatever it takes until it returns it.”

He also says, “Render back the trust to whoever put something in your trust and do not betray he who betrays you.” (Aboo Dawood and others).

Fellow Muslims! Among the people’s rights that Islam guarantees and firmly laid it’s foundation and principles is paying debts owed to fellow human beings. Islam strongly warns against negligence in paying debts, unnecessarily delaying them or treating them with utter disregard. Debts due to human beings are great trusts and huge responsibilities in the eyes of Islam. Allah says,
 “Verily! Allah commands that you should render back the trusts to whom they are due; and that when you judge between men, you judge with justice.”(An-Nisaa 4: 58)  

Imaam Al-Bukhaaree titled a chapter in his Saheeh: “Chapter: Paying of Debts” He then completely quoted the above verse and said, Allah, the Mighty and Exalted, strongly commands His slaves, saying,
 “Then if one of you entrusts the other, let the one who is entrusted discharge his trust (faithfully).” (Al-Baqarah 2: 283)  

He also says,
 “O you who believe! Fulfil (your) obligations.”(Al-Maa’idah 5: 1)  

Further, Islam strongly condemns violation of these rights. The Prophet said
 , “Whoever has done a wrong to his brother should free himself from that (i.e. by rectifying it) for he will possess not a single gold or silver coin (on the Day of Judgement) until his wronged brother is given of his good deeds (as a compensation). If he however has no good deeds to his credit, some of sins of his wronged brother will be taken and thrown upon him.”

Islam regards debts so seriously, that they are exempted from the deeds than can be forgiven and overlooked. The Prophet said,
 “Allah will forgive the martyr all his sins except for his debts.” (Muslim)

In a Hadeeth narrated by Aboo Qatadah, the Prophet stood among them (his companions) and said,
 “Indeed, Jihaad in the way of Allah and Eeman are the best of all deeds.” A man stood up and said, “Tell me, if I am killed in the way of Allah, shall all my sins be removed, O Messenger of Allah?” The Prophet said, :Yes, if you are patient, seeking your reward from Allah, facing the enemy and not turning your back to him- except debt- That is what Jibreel told me.” (Muslim)

It is also to stress the gravity of debts that the Prophet did not pray upon a debtor when he died. Jaabir narrated that,
 “A man died among us and we bathed him, perfumed him and shrouded him. Then we came to the Prophet and asked him, ‘Will you pray on him?’ He took a few steps and then said, ‘Has he any debts?’ We replied, ‘He has a debt of two dinars.’ Upon hearing that, the Prophet went away. Then Aboo Qatadah undertook to pay the debt. We, thereafter went to the Prophet and Aboo Qatadah told him, ‘I would pay the two dinars.’ The Prophet then said, ‘The creditors right is guaranteed and the deceased is free from debt?’ He said, ‘Yes.’ The Prophet then prayed on him.” (Ahmad and others)

In a Hadeeth narrated by Aboo Hurayrah, the deceased persons used to be brought to the Prophet and he would ask,
 ‘Did he leave anything with which his debt could be paid?’ If we told him that he left something, he would pray on him and if not, he would say, ‘Pray on your man (yourselves).’ When Allah opened the treasures for him as a result of the conquests he would say, ‘I am closer to the believers than their own selves; whoever dies (among them) and he has debts, I will be responsible for his debts.’” (Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim)

The Ulamaa say,
 “His abstention from praying on debtors when they died was because his prayer on them is an intercession, and his intercession is accepted, while nothing cancels debts except paying it.”

Brothers in Islam! Deferment of paying outstanding debts on the part of rich people is injustice and when one of you is made to follow a solvent man, he would follow him.” (Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim)He also said,
 “The delay of a capable man in paying his debts desecrates his honour and makes him liable to punishment.”

Brothers in Islam! There are some divine injunctions and Prophetic admonitions on matters of debts that emanate from Islam’s recognition of reality and its principle of kindness, mercy, compassion, facilitation and flexibility, of which is its permission for a Muslim to borrow when in a period of need with a good intention and a sincere determination to pay back the debt. He should not take it with an evil intention (i.e. with intention of not paying it back).

The Messenger of Allah said
 , “Whoever takes people’s money (by debt) with the intention of paying it back, Allah will pay it back on his behalf, and whoever takes it with the intention of usurping it, Allah will destroy him.”

The Ulamaa say
 , “Allah’s paying it back on his behalf means facilitating its payment for him in this world and paying it back on his behalf in the hereafter with whatever He wills if the debtor could not pay it in this world.”

Ibn Majah and others reported that the Prophet, said
  “No Muslim will take a debt which Allah knows that he wants to pay it back except that Allah pay it back on his behalf in this world and the hereafter.”

One should therefore be aware of nursing bad intention of not paying back the debt for whoever does that exposes himself to the destruction mentioned in the above-quoted Hadeeth. The Ulamaa say
 , “The destruction includes destruction of his life, his good living, making things difficult for him and making him devoid of blessings (Barakah) in this world not to mention the torment which awaits him in the hereafter.”

Brothers in faith! Of the noble instructions that Islam gives is its enjoinment of the creditor to give out debt with kindness, and honour the debtor when he is paying back.
 The Prophet borrowed a young camel from a man and when the Zakah camels were brought to him he ordered Aboo Raafi (his servant) to pay back the borrowed young camel. Aboo Raafi told him that he could not find a young camel among the brought ones and that all the camels were of the best type. The Prophet told him, ‘Give it to him, for it is the best of all people who pays back in the best form.’” (Muslim)

Fellow Muslims! One of the legacies of Islamic law is that one should make things easy for the poor and the needy and grant them respite in paying back their debts. Allah say,
 “And if the debtor is in a hard time (has no money) then grant him time till it is easy for him to repay.”(Al-Baqarah 2: 280)  

Brothers in Islam! Making things easy for the poor has a great virtue and a huge reward. The Prophet said,
 “Whoever makes things easy for a person in hardship, Allah will make things easy for him in this world and the hereafter.”

Among major means of facilitation is to write off the whole debt or part of it. Allah says,
 “But if you remit it by way of charity, that is better for you.”(Al-Baqarah 2: 280)  

The Prophet said,
 “There was a merchant who would lend money to people. Whenever he saw a poor person who could not pay, he would tell his workers, ‘Write off his debt that Allah may forgive us.’ So Allah forgave him.” (Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim)

In another Hadeeth, Hudhayfah and Aboo Mas’ood Al-Ansaaree narrated that they heard the Prophet saying,
 “A man died and was asked, ‘Why did Allah forgive you?’ He replied, ‘I used to have business transactions with people and I would write off debts owed me by the poor and alleviate for the rich.’”

The Prophet also said,
 “Whoever gives respite to a poor person or writes off his debt, Allah will put him under His shade on a day on which there will be no shade except His.”

Brothers in Islam who are wealthy! Visit the poor and look for the debtors, support them with which that Allah has bestowed on you and make things easy for them. The Prophet said,
 “Whoever relieves a believer of a hardship of this world, Allah will relieve him of a hardship of the Day of Resurrection.”

He also says, “Whoever wants his supplications to be accepted or his hardships to be removed should remove hardship from the poor.” (Ahmad)


Brothers in faith! Adhere to all these injunctions and enliven them: you will prosper, your affairs will be made good and your society will be upright.

Dear Brothers! Among the rights that Islam strongly enjoins and seriously condemns its postponement is unnecessary delay in payment of the wages of hired workers. The Prophet said,   
 “Allah says, ‘There are three people whom I shall be their opponent on the Day of Judgement: (1) A man who was given something in My Name and then betrays; (2) A man who sells-off a free man (as a slave) and consumes the price; and (3) A man who hires a labourer, makes use of his service then does not give him his wages.’” (Al-Bukhaaree).

He also says, “Give the labourer his wages before his sweat dries.” (Ibn Majah)
  

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Dating or Marriage?

How does Islam look at marriage as opposed to dating or just living together?

Why does Islam oppose having boy-friends and girl-friends?

Importance of Marriage in Islam

Islam is all about “Rights”. Everyone has rights; men, women, parents, children and of course, Allah and His prophet, peace be upon him, have “Rights” as well.
The opposite of giving people their “Rights” (haqq), is “Oppression” or “wrong-doing” (thulum). And Allah says again and again in Quran, “Verily, Allah does not love the ‘Muthlimun” (wrong doers).

It is the Right of Allah to be obeyed by His worshippers. It is the Right of the prophet, peace be upon him, to be obeyed by his followers, it is the “Right of the Quran” to be read, understood and followed – These are basic “rights” of the most important kind in Islam.

When we come to “Human Right” in Islam, we discover it is not just “one-sided” as in many cases of human-made laws and rules.

It is not acceptable in Islam for one person to achieve gratification at the expense and loss to others.
When we apply to this rule to “marriage” we find the man does have Rights by contract of marriage, as does the woman. But that is not where it stops. The children have Rights as well. They have the Rightto be raised by their parents and the Right to grow up with them, the Right to be cared by them and the parents have the Right in their old age to be cared by their children and then when they die the children have the Right to inherit from them when they pass away.

Marriage in Islam seeks to protect these and other important Rights.

Boy-friend, Girl-friend relationships deprive people of the their rights and cause serious “THulum” to many people. Loss of virginity in such relationships immediately affect any future relationship in marriage. Suspicion, doubt and worry caused by finding out or doubting the fidelity of a person’s spouse can linger throughout the entire marriage.

Not knowing who the parents of a child are, causes immediate loss of rights. Children born out of wedlock have problems in society and are often mistreated and deprived of their rights. Inheritance is only one of many rights lost to the children of “relationships” without marriage.

A father of a child may not even know he has a child or may doubt if the child is his. Day time TV shows attract large audiences by putting these kinds of parental questions forward to people on their shows and then exposing the “true father” of a child. By the way, these types of programs are very haram due to exposing people’s mistakes and making light of serious sins and wrong-doing.

Grandparents are deprived of knowing about their own little grandchildren or often have to go to court to even see them. The children very often never find out or have a chance to meet their grandparents.
Diseases are another very common problem with these types of “relationships”.

The list goes on and on..
But let us consider this important topic as discussed by our scholars and teachers and as we read, we’ll ask Allah to help us discover some of the beauties of Islam regarding “zawaj” (marriage)…
Allah has created men and women as company for one another, and so that they can procreate and live in peace and tranquility according to the commandments of Allah and the directions of His Messenger. The Quran says:
“And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts. Undoubtedly in these are signs for those who reflect.” [Noble Quran 30:21]
“And Allah has made for you your mates of your own nature, and made for you, out of them, sons and daughters and grandchildren, and provided for you sustenance of the best.” [Noble Quran 16:72]
These verses of the Noble Quran clearly show that in contrast to other religions like Christianity, Buddhism, Judaism etc. which consider celibacy or monasticism as a great virtue and a means of salvation, Islam considers marriage as one of the most virtuous and approved institutions. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) declared, “There is no monasticism in Islam.” He further ordained,
“O you young men! Whoever is able to marry should marry, for that will help him to lower his gaze and guard his modesty.” [Al-Bukhari]
Modesty was regarded as a great virtue by the Prophet. He said, “Modesty is part of faith.” [Al-Bukhari]
The importance of the institution or marriage receives its greatest emphasis from the following Hadith of the Prophet,
“Marriage is my sunnah. Whosoever keeps away from it is not from me.”
With these Quranic injunctions and the guidance from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) in mind, we shall examine the institution of marriage in the Shari’ah.
The word Zawaj (mate or pair) is used in the Quran to signify a pair or a mate. But in common parlance it stands for marriage. Since the family is the nucleus of Islamic society, and marriage is the only way to bring families into existence, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) insisted upon his followers entering into marriage The Shari’ah prescribes rules to regulate the functioning of the family so that both spouses can live together in love, security, and tranquility.
Marriage in Islam has aspects of both ‘Ibadah (worship) of Allah and mu’amalah (transactions between human beings).
In its ‘Ibadah (act of worship) aspect, marriage is an act pleasing to Allah because it is in accordance with his commandments that husband and wife love each other and help each other to make efforts to continue the human race and rear and nurse their children to become true servants of Allah.
In its mu’amalah aspect, marriage being a lawful response to the basic biological instinct to have sexual intercourse and to procreate children, the Shari’ah has prescribed detailed rules for translating this response into a living human institution reinforced by a whole framework of legally enforceable rights and duties, not only of the spouses, but also of their offspring.
These aspects are beautifully explained in a tradition of the Prophet. It is narrated by Anas that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said,
“When a man marries, he has fulfilled half of his religion, so let him fear Allah regarding the remaining half.”
The Prophet considered marriage for a Muslim as half of his religion because it shields him from promiscuity, adultery, fornication, homosexuality etc., which ultimately lead to many other evils like slander, quarreling, homicide, loss of property and disintegration of the family. According to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) the remaining half of the faith can be saved by Taqwa.

Conditions of Marriage
Careful consideration of the Quranic injunctions and the traditions of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) clearly show that marriage is compulsory (wajib) for a man who has the means to easily pay the Mahr (dowry) and to support a wife and children, and is healthy, and fears that if does not marry, he may be tempted to commit fornication (Zina). It is also compulsory for a woman who has no other means of maintaining herself and who fears that her sexual urge may push her into fornication. But even for a person who has a strong will to control his sexual desire, who has no wish to have children, and who feels that marriage will keep him away from his devotion to Allah, it is commendable (Mandub).
However, according to the Maliki school, under certain conditions it is obligatory (fard) for a Muslim to marry even if he is not in a position to earn his living:
If he fears that by not marrying he will commit fornication (Zina).
If he is unable to fast to control his passions or his fasting does not help him to refrain from Zina.
Even if he is unable to find a slave girl or a destitute girl to marry.
However some jurists suggest that if a man cannot procure a lawful livelihood, he must not marry because if he marries without any hope of getting lawful bread, he may commit theft, and in order to avoid one evil (his passions) he may become the victim of another (theft).
The Hanafi school considers marriage as obligatory (fard) for a man:
If he is sure that he will commit Zina if he does not marry.
If he cannot fast to control his passions or even if he can fast, his fast does not help him to control his passion.
If he cannot get a slave-girl to marry.
If he is able to pay the dowry (Mahr) and to earn a lawful livelihood.
Marriage is forbidden (Haram) to a man, according to the Hanafi school, if he does not possess the means to maintain his wife and children or if he suffers from an illness, serious enough to affect his wife and progeny.
It is not desirable (makruh) for a man who possesses no sexual desire at all or who has no love for children or who is sure to be slackened in his religious obligations as a result of marriage.
In order that problems should not arise after marriage the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) recommended that, in the selection of his bride, a man should see her before betrothal lest blindness of choice or an error of judgment should defeat the very purpose of marriage. But this “seeing” is not to be taken as a substitute for the “courtship” of the West. The man should not gaze passionately at his bride-to-be, but only have a critical look at her face and hands to acquaint himself with her personality and beauty. However, if a man so desires, he may appoint a woman to go and interview the proposed bride, so that she may fully describe the type of girl she is.
Since believing men and women are referred to in the Quran, a woman also has the right to look at her potential husband.
The special permission for men and women to see each other with a view to matrimony does not contravene the code of conduct for believing men and women to lower their gaze and be modest which is laid down in the Noble Quran:
Ijbar: A Safety Valve
The consent of both the man and the women is an essential element of marriage, and the Quran gives women a substantial role in choosing their own life partners. It lays down:
“Do not prevent them from marrying their husbands when they agree between themselves in a lawful manner.” [Noble Quran 2:232]
However, Imam Malik, one of the four great Imams of the Sunni schools of Islamic jurisprudence, gives a slightly restrictive interpretation to this verse and makes the choice of partner by a Muslim girl subject to the over-ruling power or ijbar of her father or guardian in the interests of the girl herself.
It may sometimes happen that in her immaturity or over-zealousness, a girl may want to marry a man about whom she has distorted information or who does not possess good character or who lacks proper means of livelihood. In such a case, it is better, or rather incumbent upon the girl’s father or guardian, that, in the wider interests of the girl, he restrains her from marrying such a worthless man and finds a suitable person to be her husband. Generally speaking, such marriages arranged by fathers and guardians work better than a marriage brought about through western courtship.
The case of Abu Juham bin Hudhaifah and Mu’awiyah ibn Abu Sufyan is relevant here. They proposed marriage to Fatimah bint Ghaith. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) advised Fatimah not to marry either of them on the grounds that Mu’awiyah was then a pauper and Abu Juham was cruel and harsh. So she married Usamah.
The Free Consent of the Parties
The Quran [4:21] refers to marriage as a mithaq, i.e. a solemn covenant or agreement between husband and wife, and enjoins that it be put down in writing. Since no agreement can be reached between the parties unless they give their consent to it, marriage can be contracted only with the free consent of the two parties. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said,
“The widow and the divorced woman shall not be married until their order is obtained, and the virgin shall not be married until her consent is obtained.” [Bukhari]
This aspect is greatly emphasized by Imam Bukhari. He, in fact, gave one of the chapters in his Sahih the significant title:
“When a man gives his daughter in marriage and she dislikes it, the marriage shall be annulled.” Once a virgin girl came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said that her father had married her to a man against her wishes. The Prophet gave her the right to repudiate the marriage. [Abu Dawud]
Divorced women are also given freedom to contract a second marriage. The Noble Quran says,
“And when you divorce women, and they have come to the end of their waiting period, hinder them not from marrying other men if they have agreed with each other in a fair manner.” [Noble Quran 2:232]
With regard to widows, the Quran says,
“And if any of you die and leave behind wives, they bequeath thereby to their widows (the right to) one year’s maintenance without their being obliged to leave (their husband’s home), but if they leave (the residence) of their own accord, there is no blame on you for what they do with themselves in a lawful manner.” [Noble Quran 2:234]
Thus widows are also at liberty to re-marry, even within the period mentioned above; and if they do so they must forgo their claim to traditional maintenance during the remainder of the year. However, it must be remembered that the power of ijbar given to the a father or the guardian by the Maliki school over their selection of life- partner obtains in all the situations considered above, namely, whether the daughter or the ward is a virgin or divorcee or widow.
Prohibited Marriage Partners
Under the Shari’ah, marriages between men and women standing in a certain relationship to one another are prohibited. These prohibited degrees are either of a permanent nature or a temporary. The permanently prohibited degrees of marriage are laid down in the Noble Quran:
“And marry not those women whom your fathers married, except what has already happened (of that nature) in the past. Lo! It was ever lewdness and abomination, and an evil way. Forbidden unto you are your mothers and your daughters, and your sisters and your father’s sisters and your mother’s sisters, and your brother’s daughters and your sister’s daughters, and your foster-mothers and your foster-sisters, and your mothers-in-law and your step-daughters who are under your mother-in-law and your step-daughters who are under your protection (born) of your women unto whom you have gone into — but if you have not gone into them, then it is no sin for you (to marry their daughters) — and the wives of your sons from your own loins, and that you should have two sisters together, except what has already happened (of that nature) in the past. Allah is ever-Forgiving, Merciful.” [Noble Quran 4:22-24]
From the above verses, it is clear that a Muslim must never marry the following:
His mother
His step-mother (this practice continues in Yoruba land in Nigeria, where in some cases the eldest son inherits the youngest wife of his father)
His grandmother (including father’s and mother’s mothers and all preceding mothers’ e.g. great grandmothers)
His daughter (including granddaughters and beyond)
His sister (whether full, consanguine or uterine)
His father’s sisters (including paternal grandfather’s sisters)
His mother’s sisters (including maternal grandmother’s sisters)
His brother’s daughters
His foster mother
His foster mother’s sister
His sister’s daughter
His foster sister
His wife’s mother
His step-daughter (i.e. a daughter by a former husband of a woman he has married if the marriage has been consummated. However, if such a marriage was not consummated, there is no prohibition)
His real son’s wife
A great wisdom lies behind these prohibitions on the grounds of consanguinity, affinity, and fosterage. No social cohesion can exist if people do not keep these prohibitions in their minds while contracting marriages.
Temporary prohibitions are those which arise only on account of certain special circumstances in which the parties are placed. If the circumstances change, the prohibition also disappears. They are as follows:
A man must not have two sisters as wives at the same time nor can he marry a girl and her aunt at the same time.
A man must not marry a woman who is already married. However this impediment is removed immediately if the marriage is dissolved either by the death of her former husband, or by divorce followed by completion of the period of ‘iddah (retreat).
A man must not have more than four wives at one time. This impediment is, of course, removed as soon as one of the wives dies or is divorced.
A man must not marry a woman during her ‘iddah.
Regarding this last prohibition, the Quran expects Muslims to act with the utmost propriety and righteousness. It lays down:
“…but do not make a secret contract with them except in honorable terms, nor resolve on the tie of marriage till the term prescribed is fulfilled.” [Noble Quran 2:235]
This means that a man must not make a specific proposal of marriage to a woman during the time of her ‘iddah after the death of her husband or an irrevocable divorce. However, he can send a message saying, for instance, “I wish to find a woman of good character”. But if a woman is in the ‘iddah of a divorce which is revocable where raja’ (return) is possible, a man must not send her even an implied invitation to marry him, because she is still considered as the lawful wife of the first husband. In fact, this restriction is most beneficial because it prevents a man from becoming an instrument of breaking up a family where there are still chances of reconciliation between the wife and husband even though they are moving away from each other.
Two Suitors Seeking to Marry the Same Girl
The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) disapproved of two persons competing with one another to secure marriage with the same girl. This is because such a situation is likely to develop bitter enmity between two Muslim brothers.
The Prophet said,
“A believer is a brother of a believer. Hence it is not lawful for him to bargain upon the bargain of a brother, nor propose for (the hand of a girl) after the marriage proposal of his brother, until the latter (voluntarily) withdraws the proposal.”
Imam Abu Hanifa, Imam Shafi’i, and Imam Malik, all hold the view that it is a sin to put a proposal of marriage against the proposal of another Muslim brother. However, if a marriage is contracted in this wrongful way it will be sufficient if the second suitor who was successful seeks the forgiveness of the first suitor and of Allah. But Imam Dhahiri considers such a marriage void. It is respectfully submitted that the former view is more rational and sound.

Perfecting One’s Character

The Prophet sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam used to make a number of supplications related to good character.

“O Allah, guide me to good character, none guides to good character but You…” [Muslim]

“O Allah, I seek refuge in you from bad character, deeds and desires.” [at-Tirmidhee]

“O Allah, You perfectly created me, so perfect my character.” [Ahmad]

“O Allah, I seek refuge in you from disability and laziness; from cowardice and avarice; from decrepitude and harshness; from negligence and impoverishment, from lowness and humiliation. And I seek refuge in You from poverty and disbelief; from sinfulness, disunity and hypocrisy; from notability and riyaa’ (show off)…” [Ahmad, Maalik, Bazaar, Haithami and ibn `Abd al-Barr authenticated it.

The following beneficial excerpt is from "The Magnificent Journey" by ibn ul Qayyim [published by QSS]. It explains three conditions needed to acquire good manners, meaning proper nature, controlling one’s nafs and sound knowledge.

Three Conditions to Acquire Excellent Manners

This is one example of the excellent manners with which Allah (ta`aala) has equipped his Messenger (sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam). He described him as,
“Verily, You [Muhammad] are on an exalted standard on character.” [68:4]

`Aa’ishah, radhiallaahu `anhu, described him as, “His character was just [a reflection of] the Qur’aan.” [Muslim, Aboo Daawood, Ahmad]

Such excellent character cannot be attained without three conditions:

1. The foundation must be good. If one has a rough and dry nature, it will be hard for him to submit to this [excellence of character] through knowledge, will, or practice. On the other hand, a mild and smooth nature will be ready and willing to receive the plowing and the seeds [to prepare it for character excellence].

2. The soul must be strong and capable of conquering calls of laziness, transgression, and desire. Those matters contradict perfection, and souls which cannot defeat them will always be defeated and conquered.

3. [One must possess] a discerning knowledge of the truth of matters, enabling one to put them in the rightful position, and to distinguish between flash and cancer – between glass and jewels.

If these three qualities are present in a man, and Allah’s facilitation helps him, then he will be among those whom the best (husnaa) has been decreed and for whom Allah’s care has been secured.

The original religion of mankind was Monotheism

  “Humanity had been a single community, and Allah sent (unto them) Prophets as bearers of good tidings and as warners, and revealed therewith the Scripture with the truth that it might judge between people concerning that wherein they differed.” [Sûrah al-Baqarah: 123]

Many Western researchers maintain that human beings did not come to know the religious creeds they know today all at once, but rather that their religious beliefs evolved and developed over a stretch of many millennia. It is not surprising that people would come to this conclusion who do not have at their disposal revelation from Allah that expounds for them the history of religious thought in clear and unambiguous terms.

What is surprising is to see these ideas being advocated by people who consider themselves – and are recognized by others – as Muslim researchers. Among them is `Abbâs Mahmûd al`Aqqâd, the author of a book entitled Allah, which explores the origins of religious belief. He holds that the religious beliefs of people progressed in accordance with the advancement of their scientific knowledge.
He writes: “The earliest beliefs of the people were in conformity with their way of life, as was their scientific knowledge and their level of technology. The earliest scientific understandings of people and their earliest artifacts were no more advanced than their earliest religious beliefs and practices. Neither were they more accurate.”

Indeed, he considers their religious evolution to be more difficult than their scientific advancement. He writes: “It makes sense that human attempts with religion would be more arduous and protracted than their attempts made in the path of science and technology. This is because the nature of existence in the absolute sense is far more difficult and remote a subject than the investigation of specific problems of the physical world which science resolves on some occasions and technological progress resolves on others.”

 Likewise, he argues that the concept of God did not come to people all at once: “If we look to the origins of religions in the earliest days of paganism, we do not find an absence of religion, nor that they were seeking something impossible. It simply shows us that the comprehension of the greatest of all realities is something that cannot take place within a single historical era.”
He then goes on to present the opinions of various researchers regarding the origins of religious belief. Among those researchers are those who argue that the reason religious beliefs came about was on account of people’s weakness before the forces of nature. Other researchers focus on totems, arguing that some tribes would take an animal as a totem, claiming that it the father of their tribe. Others might take a tree or a rock and treat it as something sacred.
Unfortunately, these and many other theories proposed by researchers in the West have been circulated by other Muslim writers like Mustafâ Mahmûd and have been embraced by a number of Muslims studying in this field. They have fallen into error for various reasons:
1. They assume that people were guided to religious belief on their own without someone to guide them and teach them. Anyone who holds this assumption is forced to draw the conclusion that people’s concept of Allah developed in the same way that their scientific and technical knowledge developed.
2. When they researched into early religions, they found only those deviant and corrupted faiths and made those religions their focus of study. How could they arrive at the truth when all they were looking at were essentially examples of deviations from the true religion.

The Qur’ân is the Only Source that Accurately Explains the Origins of Religious Belief

There is no book on Earth that accurately describes the origins of religion besides Allah’s Book. The Qur’an provides us with an abundance of information on the topic.
There are many reasons why we cannot hope to acquire accurate knowledge on this matter from any other source.
1. We know little about human history more than five thousand years ago. We know far less about what took place when we go back ten thousand years. Going back even further, our historical knowledge quickly drops to nothing. Therefore most of the information about the origin of religions is lost to us.
2. The facts that people have inherited from the past have been mixed with a lot of falsehood, submerged in oceans of forgery, additions, and alterations. We can see this clearly in that attempting to write a wholly accurate historical account of a person or a group of people of our present times is one of the most difficult of tasks. How much more difficult is it to try and deal with a topic that stretches back to the dawn of human history?
3. An important aspect of the history of religious belief is not of Earthly origin. Its domain is with Allah. Therefore, the one who can give us an accurate account of this history without any doubt is Allah.

“Nothing on Earth or in the heavens is hidden from Allah.” [Surah Al `Imrân: 5]

The Qur’âns Account:

Allah teaches us that He created Adam as an independent and complete creation and then breathed in him of his spirit and made him to live in Paradise. Allah permitted him and his wife to eat of whatever they like except the fruit of one tree. Then Satan, their avowed enemy deceived them and convinced them to eat from that tree. In obeying their enemy, they disobeyed their Lord. Allah sent them out Paradise to the Earth. Before doing so, Allah promised them that he would send down to Adam and to his progeny guidance from Himself, so that they would know their Lord, know the Law, and know what is expected of them.

Allah also promised that those on Earth who respond favorably to His guidance will be guided and will attain everlasting felicity in the Hereafter. Likewise, he forewarned those who would be haughty and disobey that theirs would be wretchedness on Earth and disgrace in the Hereafter.
Allah says: “We said: Go forth from this (state) all; so surely there will come to you a guidance from Me, then whoever follows My guidance, no fear shall come upon them, nor shall they grieve. And (as to) those who disbelieve in and reject My communications, they are the inmates of the fire, in it they shall abide.” [Sûrah al-Baqarah: 38-39]

Allah also says: “He said: Go down hence, both of you, one of you a foe unto the other. But when there come unto you from Me a guidance, then whoever follows My guidance, he will not go astray nor come to grief. But he who turns away from remembrance of Me, his will be a narrow life, and I shall bring him blind to the assembly on the Day of Resurrection. He will say: My Lord! Why have You gathered me (hither) blind, when I had sight? He will say: So (it must be). Our revelations came unto you but you did forget them. In like manner you are forgotten this Day.” [Sûrah TâHâ: 123-126]

The First Generations Were upon Monotheism

After Adam and Eve came to the Earth, they and their progeny were upon pure monotheism.
Allah says: “Humanity had been a single community, and Allah sent (unto them) Prophets as bearers of good tidings and as warners, and revealed therewith the Scripture with the truth that it might judge between people concerning that wherein they differed.” [Sûrah al-Baqarah: 123]

When Allah says that humanity “had been a single community”, He is referring to a community of faith. All people were upon monotheism and the religion of truth.

Abû Umâmah relates that once, a man asked Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and asked him: “Had Adam been a Prophet?”
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) answered: “Yes.”
The man asked: “How much time passed between him and Noah?”
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) replied: “Ten centuries”
[Sahîh Ibn Hibbân (6190). Mu`jam al-Tabarânî al-Kabîr (8/188-119 #7545). Mustadrak al-Hâkim (3093). 

Al-Hâkim says: “This hadîth is authentic according to the conditions set forth by Muslim.” Sheikh Muhammad Asad al-Dârânî says: “Its chain of transmission is authentic.” – marginal notes to Sahîh Ibn Hibbân (14/69)]

Ibn `Abbâs said: “between Adam and Noah were then centuries, all of which were upon Islam.” [Tafsîr al-Tabarî (2/335-336)]

If we assume that the century being referred to here is one hundred years, then we are dealing with at least 1000 years. It might even have been longer, since Ibn `Abbâs specifies the meaning to be ten centuries “upon Islam”. There might have been more centuries wherein deviation had occurred.
It is also possible that the Arabic word qarn that means “century” is being used here in this hadîth to mean “generation”. The word appears with this meaning in the Qur’ân.

The Muslim does not feel envy...

Allah's Messenger (SAWS) said: "There is to be no envy except with regard to two: A man whom Allaah has given wealth which he strives to spend righteously, and a man to whom Allaah has given the Wisdom (i.e. the Qur’aan) and he acts according to it and teaches it to others."

(Bukhari)