"When man wakes up in the morning each day, all parts of the body warn the tongue saying,
(At-Tirmidhee)
Allah will not leave the believers in the state in which you are now, until He distinguishes the wicked from the good.
(Qur'an 3:179)
Allah tests with difficulties, as well as, blessings:
Allah says:
“Every soul shall taste of death. And We will test you with evil and with good by way of trial. And to Us is your return.”
“Know that your wealth and your children are but a trial and that Allah has with Him a mighty reward.”
[Sûrah al-Anfâl: 28]
Many people do not realize that they are tried just as severely with the good that they are given as they are by the misfortunes that befall them.
Allah says:
“And as for man, whenever his Lord tries him by honoring him and makes him lead an easy life, he says: ‘My Lord honors me’. But when He tries him by straitening his means of subsistence, he says: ‘My Lord has disgraced me’.”
[Sûrah al-Fajr: 15-16]
Imam Ibn Mubarak described good character with the following sentence:
"’To smile (be cheerful), do good, and avoid harm’’
(Tirmidhi: Kitab al Birr)
1. The Prophet was sent to teach good manners. The Prophet (S.A.W.S.) said:
‘’I was only sent to perfect good character’’ (Al-Hakim)
2. The best among people: The Prophet (S.A.W.S.) said:
‘’The best among you are those who are best in character’’ (Bukhari)
3. Good character is a sign of the perfection of iman: The Prophet (S.A.W.S.) said:
‘’The most complete of believers in iman are those who are best in character’’. (Abu Dawud/ Tirmidhi)
4. Good character will be the weightiest thing on the scale: The Prophet (S.A.W.S.) said:
‘’Nothing will be placed in the balanced heavier than good conduct, and a person with good conduct will attain the rank of one who fasts and prays’’. (Tirmidhi)
5. Righteousness is Good Character
A man came to the Prophet S.A.W.S. and asked him: O Messenger of Allah, what is Righteousness. The Prophet S.A.W.S. said: ‘’It is good character’’. (Hadith Mursal)
6. Having good character is safety from hypocrisy: The Prophet (S.A.W.S.) said:
‘’Two characteristics are not found together in a hypocrite, pleasant personality and understanding of the deen’’. (Tirmidhi)
7. Having Good character will admit a person into Heaven. The Prophet (S.A.W.S.) said:
On the authority of Abu Huraira who said: The Prophet was asked what deed will be foremost to admit a man to Paradise. He replied, ‘Fear of Allah and good conduct’’. Then he was asked what deed will be foremost to admit a man to the (Hell) Fire? He replied, ‘’The two hollow things ‘’The tongue and the private parts’’. (Ibn Majah)
8. People of good character will earn the Prophet’s companionship and love on the Day of Judgement:
‘’The dearest to me among you and nearest to me on the Day of Judgement will be one who is best among you in conduct; and the one who most disliked by me among you and the one furthest away from me on the Day of Judgement will be those who talk with pretence, the boastful, and the talkatives’’. (Tirmidhi)
9. The Prophet S.A.W.S. was described as being on an exalted standard of character. He would supplicate to Allah to make his character beautiful the same way He made his (Prophet’s) creation beautiful and perfect.